6 Bad signs your relationship is really close to ending!

6 bad signs your relationship is really close to ending- Are you about to get dumped by your partner? This article would help you with  a thing or two that you need to know. Every relationship starts beautifully, it starts with butterflies in your stomach , it feels like the best thing in the world. You only see the best qualities in your partner and also imagine years of bliss and happiness, But then something changes, realities steps in, something changes after week two or sometimes after 6 months and then suddenly everything that was once easy and perfect is now incredibly challenging.  Here are the 6 Bad signs your relationship is really close to an end.


1. There's a Break/Breakdown in communication.

Some people are good when it comes to communication while others aren't. The important thing is that both partners try to communicate with one another, If there is a lack of communication from one side or lack of effort ,then there is going to be trouble in future.  When there is criticism involved , At a certain point , someone who's always been criticized whether in a course of one conversation or consistent communication pattern, the relationship is just going to shut down," says Ann Hartiage, PHD the director of rush university Marital and Sex Therapy Program.

2. You start talking in cliches.

On the surface , you may still feel like there's still communication, but if you pay attention you would notice that words are shallow, this could be a sign that things are getting a little bit rocky. Specifically, Be at alert if your partner is speaking in cliches. It's better and much easier to fall back on these empty statement , rather than being real emotional and raw.

3. You feel happier when you're alone.

A quick question, Do you feel like you're happier when you're alone than when you're with your partner?. Well then perhaps your partner may feel the same way too.if this is the case, You probably like the idea of having or being in a relationship more than you would like your actual partner, you like the idea or your clinging to the comfort of a relationship while you are not actually wanting to commit the energy, time and vulnerability that it takes to cultivate a healthy relationship. You're better off being single or finding someone who makes you happier.

4. You ignore each other's texts and calls.

One tangible sign that something is wrong is when your partner starts ignoring your phone calls and texts. At first, you may not take or read any meaning into it . Usually they call/text you back when they see your missed call or text but now it takes hours or days before they get back to you , or they come up with the excuse that they are busy, Don't get me wrong, you shouldn't get stressed over a few delayed response here and there, but when it becomes a habit it shows where you stand on their priority list.

5. They have new priorities.
 When your phone calls and text  are being ignored, this is often coupled with new priorities. And when your partner finally gets back to you they'll come up with different/ irrelevant/ reasons as to why they couldn't respond quicker. Their common excuses would include sleep, work, family conflict, phone been on silent, low battery,network, among others. while these do happen , excuse after excuse it shows that you are no longer a priority ,  it shows that there are other things that are more important to your partner than you and a breakup is probably the best choice.

" excuses are reasons for failure"

6. Long Distance Relationship.
long distance relationship often masks issues that other couples recognize almost immediately. For example, if you're in a normal relationship  where you both live in the same city, then it's worrisome if you haven't seen each other in a few days. But if you're in a long-distance relationship, you may go for Years , Months, Weeks without seeing each other and just chalk it up as part of the process. If this is your case, then you need to wake up. For a long distance relationship, never seeing each other is bad. Even with hectic schedules, you should try to always keep in touch via WhatsApp , webcam, calls, text, making time to go visit each other (like holidays or weekends if you are a very busy person) etc. "If you and your partner feel like you are not meant to be" , take this as a sign that there is no future together. Instead turn your attention to new things and don't worry about the past, move on , "There is no point trying to force or fix a broken cup".